Since I was a little girl, I always knew there would be someone out there for me who would come into my life and represent true love. Not because I was obsessed with Disney movies and princesses, but because I knew deep in my Soul there was somebody out there for me.
If there’s one half, there must be another half as well, right?
This has absolutely nothing to do with another person making you “whole”, though. Nobody can make you whole except yourself. And the moment that happens, expect miracles from the Universe.
Soul contracts before we are born
I believe that our Souls exist in a higher dimension before we are born and go there again after we die. I have a small obsession with NDEs (Near Death Experiences), which confirm that as well. And even my own psychedelic journeys have pointed to other realms and Universes that exist simultaneously with ours.
If that is true, we come to Earth for the human experience. Our Souls are sent here to learn and to evolve. And a big number of those learning moments are planned before we enter here (soul contracts).
These often involve soulmates. Soulmates are people (not always romantic) who have a significant impact on our journeys. They come at exactly the right moments, and leave that way too once the lesson is learnt.
The hard lessons
Nobody comes to Earth and has it all smooth sailing. We all learn lessons that are designed for us. Some are harder than others, and from some you might never fully recover.
But once you understand that these hard moments are all meant to prepare you for what’s coming, you will start trusting the Universe more.
We meet soulmates, and we lose soulmates, and this can be very hard to deal with. When I lost one of my soulmates, I entered a 3-year period of darkness, thinking I would never experience that type of love again.
And that was exactly what was supposed to happen, because that type of love was also extremely triggering.
Love coming to trigger you
His love exposed all my childhood wounds, and a whole new understanding of the world opened up to me. Without that experience, I wouldn’t be who I am right now, and I wouldn’t be ready for an elevated soulmate.
After all, we attract what our vibration sends out, and if you have unresolved trauma, that is what you will get in return.
It might be harsh to say this, but those experiences are so important for your Soul to evolve. This type of love often involves insecure attachment styles, mental health problems, addictions, and depression.
And that is exactly what the Universe meant to do to you: it prepares you before meeting the right partner.
When you are ready to meet the One
Some people are lucky enough to meet their forever soulmates at a young age, but many of us have to go through hard lessons first.
But once you’ve integrated those lessons, the Universe will send you these 8 signs that true love is on the way:
1. Old karmic relationships are releasing
You will feel a sense of resolution with your exes. No drama or resentment, but gratitude and forgiveness. You truly wish them the best.
We cannot form true new bonds when old ones are still lingering. If you still have the desire to go back to a toxic ex or unhealthy relationship, something inside you first needs to release that.
Sometimes soulmates briefly show up to remind us what is possible in love, but you still need to fully close your karmic relationship before you can move to the next one.